I seem to have been somewhat preoccupied with work, dating and ridiculousness lately so have not been updating. I am not even sure where to begin. I have gone on a few dates, but nothing I was blown away by...OK, that is not entirely true, but the bad have outweighed the good. Here is one of the bad:
I went for drinks with OldYT Guy last Thursday night. Here is the thing: he is a very good looking guy, but super geeky. I wan't even aware that you could still be geeky at 39, but he was. I also tend to like a guy who is somewhat on the geeky side, so that must mean he was super over the top geeky. I sometimes think that if my mood was different a date could go completely the other way. He had planned for him to come and pick me up at 8 - after he was done at some work event. He didn't come until 9:30 (he did call, but still!) By the time he got here I was annoyed and tired after a full day of working out and working. We went for drinks and some snacks and I tried to get over my annoyance, but it just didn't happen. I moved away every time he tried to touch me and leaned forward when he put his arm across the back of the booth. I was still being nice, but not flirty at all. He dropped me off and went in for a full on open mouth kiss. I flew out of the car as quick as I could. Post script to this date: Queen and Heart sound nothing alike (noted by the fact that one has a female singer and one a male) and Heart is not classic rock just like a 1985 Camaro is NOT a hot rod!!!!
The other bad ones are too generic to even bother with. Drinks, crappy conversation, blah, blah, blah.
I also went out a few times with SD, who was one of the best first dates ever. We ate and drank and almost got on a flight to Vegas at 1 am after hitting at least 5 different spots and drinking as many bottles of wine. We decided it was probably not a good idea and went to the casino instead. Somehow we both managed to win money, but not exactly sure how. Talk about a Sunday Funday. Monday at work was not that fun. We chatted throughout the day and he called and said he was going to come over Monday night and make some food (he is a trained chef) and have some wine. After getting a few confusing texts after that he showed up at my place with no food or wine and completely drunk. He failed to mention in our phone conversation that he was drinking all day. He also forgot about the phone conversation we had that he said he would make me dinner in. OK, pizza it is. He insisted he wanted to watch a movie so I ordered one and he passed out on my leg. Wonderful! The best part if that the one character (the asshole) in the movie totally reminded me of JG, so I texted to tell him this and we ended up texting back and forth throughout the movie. He thought it was pretty funny that my "date" was passed out on my couch.
SD came over on Friday night when he got off work. I had a bunch of people here playing poker and having drinks. He got along with everyone and we had a good time, but I knew it couldn't go anywhere. He actually left to go home today for an indeterminate amount of time due to his father being terminally ill; he is not expected to live throughout this week. No wonder the kid is drinking so much! So, maybe some other time.
Saturday Toad and I went for lunch and drank beer and watched Hockey Day in Canada all day. I left at about 7 and met T at my place. We headed out to meet JG and friend and ended up downtown having more drinks. After running into EngagedGuy we left and got pizza and came to my place. We all got up in the morning for an early breakfast before JG and B headed back to the burbs. EngagedGuy texted me all Sunday and tried to come over. Douchebag!
Sunday I ran around a bunch and then headed to G for the Oscar part and Jen's birthday. We ended up having a complete blast; open bar and buffet. It was so good. After a few hours we decided to head to the Roxy (where else would you wrap up a Sunday Funday). A lot of shots and drinks later I was on the dance floor (how does that happen??) Did I mention I was wearing a tiny black dress and very high stilletos for the Oscar party??? Ya, I was that chick at the Roxy!
Somehow I ended up chatting with a guy who was really nice and we found out we live across the street from one another. After all of the "no sex" reassurances we went to his place for a glass of wine and decided to watch a movie. I totally passed out in the typical Nic fashion...snoring very loudly and unmovable. After MM tried to wake me up for a while he went to bed. I woke up in the morning on his couch...very short dress now riding up somewhere around my waist, stilletos still on, snoring loudly (yes I even caught myself snoring). It took me a few minutes to figure out where I was and also remembered there was talk of MM having a roommate. After walking by an empty room I sneakily tried to open the other bedroom door, but of course it was the squeakiest door ever! MM woke up and kind of just laughed at me. He pulled me into bed with him and we ended up talking for quite some time (mostly laughing at the site his roommate would have woken to). After an hour nap I told him he had to make the walk of shame with me (trust me, this one was bad!!!) I really needed a coffee (his Starbucks is also mine - he didn't want to take me there because I looked so trampy!) but we went anyway and ran into 2 of his ex cowrokers (he used to work at the attached hotel). Sometimes this city is just too small!
We got our coffees to go and came to my place...I got changed and we went for lunch in YT. We just click. There is no weirdness and we are just super comfortable with eah other. He walked me home after we took a short walk in the rain - i had to head to my chiro to pay them. He had some things to do and then came over again later on and took me for sushi. Kind of like 3 dates in 24 hours. I don't think I have ever done that.
He is having me over for dinner tonight. Apparently he can also cook. So far so good. I actually had a chiro appointment this morning and my chiro's mom (the receptionist) told me that my boyfriend is very nice and we make a great couple. I had to laugh at that one.
So that is mostly up to current. I will keep you posted on MM and everything else upcoming!
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